Reflections on Time
The ideas, quotes, questions and exercises in my daily blog are designed to help you think about time differently. This blog is not about “managing” time. Managing time is only a small aspect of our ability to deal with the time in our lives. If you want to better manage time, you must first see time for what it really is. I hope these daily blogs on time will provide you with a lens for a new way of looking at time that will change your life forever. John
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I would be happy to talk to you about training or other organizational needs you might have.
Friday, June 20, 2014
John's New Blog Site.
I left "time parables" and started a new blog at http://www.agingcapriciously.com I wanted to explore longer themes and a greater variety of subjects. I should have left this message two years ago, but I guess "better late than never." If you have enjoyed my blogs here, I think you will enjoy my new site. My posts are now longer, generally 2000 to 3000 words and my subject matter more diverse. I would like to think my writing has also improved and has more variety to it. If you go to my new site, you might want to start at the beginning which was Feb 2013. Hope you enjoy.
Wednesday, February 6, 2013
Beginning Again
I want to thank all of you who have followed my blog here and posted comments or sent me feedback. I am starting a new blog and have written the first post today. I will try to do 2 per week and the subject is on Aging. This subject affects everyone of us since we are all, whether young or old, aging. You can read my first post at my new blog site:
http://agingcapriciously.com/2013/02/06/aging-or-saging/
I look forward to your comments and continued readership. If you enjoy my blogs, please send them to others, print them out and use them wherever you like or send me ideas you might have for subjects or content. I don't know about other writers but I enjoy feedback and like Mark Twain said "I can go six months on a small compliment."
http://agingcapriciously.com/2013/02/06/aging-or-saging/
I look forward to your comments and continued readership. If you enjoy my blogs, please send them to others, print them out and use them wherever you like or send me ideas you might have for subjects or content. I don't know about other writers but I enjoy feedback and like Mark Twain said "I can go six months on a small compliment."
Friday, June 29, 2012
It is Finished
It Is
Finished! What does the phrase, “it
is finished” mean? Does it mean,
over and done with? Does it mean that it is accomplished? These were Jesus’s last words on the cross
(John 19:30). Did he mean that his life
was over or was he saying that his life’s work was over? Somehow, while I did not want to seem
blasphemous, this phrase was echoing in my mind and it seemed a fitting way to
end my Time Blog. What does “it is
finished,” mean?
I started this blog sometime in October of 2009. A friend of mine had asked me what I had
written recently. This was several years
after my last book was published (1998) and I had not been writing for several
years. He noted that it was a shame that
I was not writing and I replied “I only write if I get paid for it.” Later on I thought about this and upon some
reflection realized that in writing one does it because they love it but not
necessarily because you think you will make any money on it. Putting aside my pecuniary interests, I
decided to write for love and passion.
Meaning to hell with any writing for business or clients or money, I
would simply write what I felt like.
It took a while but I finally settled on the idea of writing
about time. I decided that I would write a series of reflections upon the many
and manifest varieties and concepts that time is associated with. Time seems to affect every element of our
lives and I am and have been (or at least thought I was) a master at using,
saving, managing, deploying and creating time.
Money has tnever been important to me or my life but I am obsessed
with time. I cannot waste a minute of
it. It is the most precious thing in the world to me. It is truly (or was anyway before I started
this blog) my GOD. Along the way of
writing this blog, I began to see that I was holding on to a phantom. Time did not exist except in my mind and
heart. I was creating it each morning when I woke up and letting it go each
night when I went to bed.
I decided to write a blog every weekday or at least try to. I reasoned that more people would read my
blog if it were regular and dependable.
I have now posted or written 700 blogs counting this one. I confess that I have recycled several blogs and
either edited them or expanded them as upon further thought, I decided they
needed more work and could be republished.
I have written at least 500 new blogs on time over the past 3
years. My readership grew from about 400
“views’ per month to about 3,000 views per month.
I do have some confessions to make. Would it were only one. However it would not be fitting or just to
close my final blog without being honest.
I had thought of ending this blog many times. Often I would write and ask for comments or
feedback. I even posted polls and surveys and seldom if ever did any readers
respond or reply. It was very
disappointing. I constantly questioned
the value of what I was writing and saying.
I was on the verge of quitting many times when out of the blue I would
get a comment or remark from a reader with some insights, praise or questions about
my blog. This single comment out of nowhere
would reenergize me. I would decide to
continue writing. It was sufficient that
at least one person knew I existed and depended upon my blog for some
inspiration or motivation. I often
decided that even if only one person in the universe read my blog, I would
continue writing it. Over the years, the
number of comments trickled in and it was enough to sustain me.
My sorrow and regrets are somewhat mundane. I had selfishly
and egotistically wanted my blog to grow to at least a million readers a
month. I had secretly nourished a hope
that I would be “discovered” and a talk show, movie and many You Tube videos
would all trumpet my talent and creativity to the world. The days turned into weeks. The weeks turned
into months and the months turned into years and here I am. Still unknown! Still unheralded! Still not a celebrity! Many others with what seemed to me much less
talent and much less to say were feted and lauded every single day. From Donald Trump to Sarah Palin, fools like
these make millions on talk shows, speeches and lectures. Is value truly determined by the quality of
what we have to say? Dr. Deming and many of my other mentors all sent
a message that quality was more important than quantity. Have I been lacking in some intrinsic quality
that is necessary in order to find fame and fortune? Have I been too mean spirited to the gods
above or perhaps not offered Zeus the right sacrifice? Why have Oprah and Sally and Jay and Barbara
not called upon me for advice and recognition?
One of my other friends cautioned me. She said “write about things that uplift
people. Do not write negative ideas and
spend your time criticizing or harping on the evils of the world.” She said, people will take more note and
value from your writing if you spend more time on the positive side of life
than the negative. For the most part, I
agreed with her and I would say that I have tried to write inspirations and
motivations to help others. However, I decided that there is also a role for me
to speak out against what I perceive as the evils and injustices in the world. I reasoned that a little lecture would not turn off to many readers and might just
help to mobilize others against injustice.
One of my most proud efforts is my series of blogs on
immigration. I was worried that many
people would take offense at my opinions.
Living in Arizona, I was even advised that it might be dangerous to
write about this subject when the tensions and feelings are running so
high. Nevertheless, for many reasons I
chose to speak out against the anti-immigration forces. I truly do not know whether my comments made
one iota of difference to anyone but it seemed the right thing to do. I am constantly reminded of the quote by Edmund
Burke (1729-1797) that "The only thing necessary for the triumph of
evil is for good men to do nothing." Thus, I have taken the negative road several times over the years to
speak out against what I thought were evils in the world. If you hated or loved these blogs, it really
did not matter to me. My faith was that somewhere
on this planet, I might make a difference to someone who felt hopeless, unloved
or unlovable.
Jesus in his ministry consistently noted that we must help
the poor.
John 3:17 - But if someone who is supposed to be a Christian has money
enough to live well, and sees a brother in need, and won't help him--how can
God's love be within him ?
John 3:18 - Little children, let us stop just saying we
love people; let us really love them, and show it by our actions.
I will end this blog with the
famous words of Dr. Martin Luther King: “If you want to say that I was a drum major, say that I was a drum major
for justice. Say that I was a drum major for peace. I was a drum major for
righteousness. And all of the other shallow things will not matter.”
I don’t
pretend to have the depth or piety of Jesus or Dr. King, but I have hoped that
over the years some good would come to the world from my writings.
But
difference or no difference to the world, it is time to move on. For those of you who have been faithful
readers, part-time readers or sent comments and feedback, I want to thank you. Go
and do likewise. This blog is finished.
Thursday, June 28, 2012
A Sign of the Times
Zeitgeist is a
German word that roughly translates to “tempo of the times or the sign of the
times.” A sign of the times may be “tribal tattoos” or SUV's, or black Fridays. I can see
a list developing here, some of the things I associate with the “Times” today
are:
- Greed is good
- Shop till you drop
- He who has the most toys wins
- Serial killers
- Pedophiles
- Helicopter moms
- Sports scholarships, sports stadiums, sports salaries
- Astronomical college tuitions
- Non-stop news, sports and stupid sit-coms on TV
- Billionaire Ponzi schemes
- Increased gas prices
- Decreased water resources
- Global warming, climate change, swarms, tornadoes, hurricanes, fire storms and more storms
- Casinos, lotteries, pull tabs and scratch offs
- Ridiculous lawsuits, ridiculous litigants and ridiculous lawyers
- Celebrities, royal moms, TV Stars, Movie Stars and more celebrities
- Smart phones, Facebook, LinkedIn and IPads
- Travel leagues, T-ball, gonzo fans, gonzo coaches and gonzo parents
- Crooked politicians, stupid politicians, partisan politicians, despicable politicians
- Outsourcing, off-shoring, insourcing, global competition
- Designer jeans, designer dogs, designer homes, designer weddings, designer funerals, designer people
- Aging, retiring and dying baby-boomers
A “sign of the times” may be the poor attitudes of teenagers
today. But wait, wasn’t that a sign of
the times during the days of Socrates? A
quote attributed to Socrates holds that:
“Our youth now love
luxury. They have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for
their elders and love chatter in place of exercise; they no longer
rise when elders enter the room; they contradict their parents, chatter before
company; gobble up their food and tyrannize their teachers.”
Perhaps a sign of the times is the
“great recession” that we are either coming out of or still in. Maybe a sign of the times is the increased
unemployment or maybe the “war on drugs” or maybe the increased road rage or
maybe our attack on immigrants and immigration.
Maybe it is our shift to the political right and the increased influence
of evangelicals and Republicans. A sign
of the times is an expression used to denote something that seems
symbolic or emblematic of the era we are living in. “Sign of the times” was a phrase strongly related to Roman Catholicism in the
era of the Second Vatican Council. It
was taken to mean that the Church should listen to, and learn from, the world
around it.” (wikipedia.org)
The problem is we do not have any good reference points to
compare our times to. Most of us do not
have a very good knowledge of history or of what happened even a few years
ago. We all tend to forget how things
really were. So we think: crime is worse today, teenagers are worse today, life
is harder today, etc. Then we say: “it’s a sign of the times.” However, it could easily be a sign of many
times and eras gone by. What then are
the dependable and predictable signs that would allow us to say with certainty
that our times are different (for better or worse) than past times?
Very few things really emerge that make good signs of the
times. Rising costs and rising taxes
have been true forever. War, famine and
pestilence were frequent during the days of the Pharaohs and are still with us
today. Disease kills millions yearly and
people do not really seem any less or more happy than in days gone by. Is life easier or more difficult today? You would probably notice that it depended on
who you asked. How then can we find a
true and accurate “sign of the times?”
Bottom line is you will probably not. The idea sounds good on paper but
it is just too subjective. There are few
signs that exist today that could irrefutably tell you what year or even decade
it was, without the value of hindsight.
Twenty years from now, it will be possible to look back at today and say
things about it with some certainty but the present is never certain. That is why the past cannot predict the
future.
We seem to dwell on the “bad signs” but maybe you can think
of some good signs of the times. For
instance, income levels are rising across the world and many diseases have now
been eradicated that plagued humanity for centuries. We should make a list of all the good
signs. I think it would probably be
longer than the list of bad signs. What
do you think are the signs of the time today?
How would these compare to your signs twenty years ago? Do you think your signs would hold up if you
went back two thousand years? Will these
(my list and your list) still be signs five or ten years from now? When do
signs become obsolete? Do your signs
tell you that things are better or worse today?
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
Letter to My Grandson
Dear Sam,
I hope this letter finds you well and happy. I hope you are honoring and obeying your
father and mother. You have great
parents who love you very much. Grandma
and I are looking forward to visiting you a while when you are in Korean Camp
this summer. You always seem to be
having so much fun there. When I was
young, I went to camp for one week at a Boy Scout camp called Camp Yawgoog.
My parents could not afford to send me more than once and I was always
jealous of the kids that got to go back or could spend more than one week.
I am writing to clarify something I said when we were having
dinner on Mother’s Day. Grandma told me later that you asked if I thought you
were stupid for spending time playing baseball and other sports. I was
surprised at the question and disappointed that you misunderstood what I was
saying to your mom. I had no intention
of hurting your feelings by what I said. So let me explain a bit.
I think sports are great. I think most athletes are
dedicated, disciplined, hardworking people.
I think it takes a great deal of determination and effort to be
successful in sports and that those individuals who succeed are truly gifted
individuals athletically. In life, we are
all given gifts. Jesus said: “But he that knew
not, and did commit things worthy of stripes, shall be beaten
with few stripes. For unto whomsoever much
is given,
of him shall be much required:
and to whom men have committed much, of him they will ask the more.” (Luke 12:48).
He also said “Whoever has will be given more; whoever does not have,
even what he has will be taken from him." (Mark 4:25).
These comments by Jesus mean that we are all given gifts and
if we use them, they will be increased in us.
Many would commonly say “use-them or lose-them.” This means that if we don’t use them, they
will be lost to us. Unfortunately, many lazy
people wait around to get FREE gifts by winning the lottery, gambling or suing
someone. They do not realize that gifts
come to us through hard work, sweat and perseverance. One of my favorite quotes is by Thomas
Jefferson. Jefferson said “I have
noticed that the harder I work, the luckier I get.” The great Roman philosopher Seneca said that
“luck is where preparation meets opportunity.”
It is clear to me that we must
find those gifts which we have in life and use them to the best of our ability.
It takes determination and hard work to
develop them.
My concern with sports and my problems with the way sports
are handled today is that for too many people, they have become almost like a
drug. More people will watch the average
football or baseball game than will listen to a presidential debate. We pay the average NCAA Division 1 football
coach 1.47 million dollars a year (USA Today, 2011). This is more than most college presidents
make and much more than the average college teacher. Colleges continue sports programs that are
high budget and high maintenance despite the fact that most do not make money
for the school. High Schools that cannot
afford art and music programs nevertheless keep their sports programs.
Writing in Forbes magazine, Steven Salzberg notes: “The
football-industrial complex has too much power over our universities. Nothing
else can explain how we spend so much money and time on football, which
contributes almost nothing to students’ education, while academic departments
are cutting faculty and staff. The culture of football worship has gotten so
out of control that I think the only solution is to get rid of it entirely.”
My feelings are
not exactly as strong about football and other sports as Salzberg’s but I
question why we need so much emphasis on sports and so much less on other
areas. The great Greek philosophers all
said that the secret of success in life was “all things in moderation.” However, even Aristotle counseled that
moderation needed moderation as well.
I think sports
have a definite place in our lives. However, in America today, people have
become so obsessed with sports that we have created a cult of sports
worship. Ironically, the greater this
worship has become, the fatter most Americans have become. I give you great credit Sam for participating
rather than becoming a couch potato as so many others have and sitting idly by on Sundays watching the latest sports event.
However, there are also other things in life we need to try in order to
find that balance that the Greeks talked about. There is no telling what other gifts you might
have if you could explore some other options.
Perhaps Sam, you are a great artist, writer, musician, sculpture, actor,
singer or scientist waiting to emerge. Maybe
your true gifts are not in sports but some other domain. Only by spending time and energy on other
activities can we know what we are truly destined in life to do.
IMHO, spending
too much time on any one activity at too early an age is not a good way to find
your gifts. I wish my parents had
encouraged me to do more things and to try more stuff. If I could go back to high school, I would
join band, the drama club and the writers club.
I would take more time to learn Chinese and art. I was not an outstanding student and I spent
more time goofing off then really learning anything. I did love athletics though and taught myself
surfing, tennis, handball and scuba diving.
I always loved the outdoors and being active. I have raced canoes,
bicycles, cars, motorcycles and completed several triathlons. I did not do these for money, but simply
because I wanted the challenge to see how good I was. From these activities, I learned that
athletics while fun and exciting were not where my gifts lay. However, I am still able to enjoy many sports
because I have taken care of my body and not abused it. I still run, canoe, bike, roller-blade, swim
and occasionally do a local race. I
believe we should all stay active.
One good thing about individual sports as opposed to team sports is that I do not need a coach, referee or twenty other guys to go out and get some exercise. The sports I pursue are things I can do my entire life and they are not things that will usually cause great harm to my body unless I am very careless. I can’t control a 300 pound blocker trying to hit me but I can control the speed I bike or roller blade. There is risk in any sport and that goes with the game. However, the intelligent person balances risk with rewards and does their best to minimize risk.
One good thing about individual sports as opposed to team sports is that I do not need a coach, referee or twenty other guys to go out and get some exercise. The sports I pursue are things I can do my entire life and they are not things that will usually cause great harm to my body unless I am very careless. I can’t control a 300 pound blocker trying to hit me but I can control the speed I bike or roller blade. There is risk in any sport and that goes with the game. However, the intelligent person balances risk with rewards and does their best to minimize risk.
I have been
teaching since 1976 and I have taught every grade from kindergarten to Ph.D.
programs at the University of Minnesota.
I find that whenever anyone has a true passion for what they are doing,
they will more than likely be successful at it.
If your true passion is sports, then you should follow your
passion. Sean John says “Life without
passion is unforgivable.” However,
passion needs purpose to have an effective life. We need to balance our passion for things,
with a purpose for doing them. The greatest purpose in life is to help others
or to give back to the world some of the gifts it has given to you. Maurice Turmel writing in Boxingscene.com
asks: “What is Passion without
Purpose? A car spinning its wheels perhaps? An electric motor running out of control,
with nowhere to go? Passion needs
purpose to be attached to, to be drawn by, to be enlivened by and directed
towards. If we have no purpose, then how
can we have passion?”
School is a place
to learn, to grow and to try new things.
You will often hear college students being told “Wait until you get to
the real world.” I try not to use this
phrase because I think that college is real as well. I could not have been
teaching college for the past 15 years without feeling that college is real. However, college does permit more learning
than you might find in the work world and that is the beauty of college and all
schools as well. They are places where we can try new things without expecting
to be punished or penalized if they do not work out. You can join the band, or
art club, or student newspaper, or the glee club and no one is going to throw
you out as long as you put in your effort and share of the work. You do not have to worry about a pay check on
Fridays or a boss firing you. Effort in
school is perhaps more important than results and this gives us a lot of leeway
to try new things. I may flunk Chinese
but I may also find out that I am just not very good at languages or perhaps I
will find that languages are something I have a real passion for. I once had a friend who knew 13 languages. I
was always envious. Of course, I did not
want to study as hard as he did.
So, to finish
this letter to you Sam, I hope I have explained my thinking and ideas to you
some about sports and life as well.
Perhaps the best advice I can leave you with is the famous Hamlet dictum
: “To thine own self by true.” Do
what you find passion in Sam, but keep your heart and mind open to other
opportunities. Try as many things as you
can when you are young. As you get
older, you may have fewer opportunities to try things. Adulthood brings responsibilities that often
limit the choices we can make. One of my
friends died and at his funeral, they all noted that Harold always said he had
no regrets. Even when he found he had
less than six months to live and he was dying of pancreatic cancer, he said he
“had not regrets.” Not a bad way to live
a life. I hope I can say the same thing
when I am on my last breath. I hope you will be able to as well.
See you soon,
Grandpa John,
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