Today I will talk about a subject that seems all too fitting. Since putting my website up for new business writers, I have been guilty of this "evil" It is the "evil" of procrastination. Procrastination is a word to be feared, yet it is a word
that we are all too familiar with. The
dictionary defines it as “To postpone or delay needlessly.” It also traces its roots to the Latin wherein
pro-crastinate means to “put forward.” Thus,
when we don’t want to do something today, we put it forward until
tomorrow. Sometimes that works and other
times it starts creating a kind of sandbag effect in which it just seems easier
to keep putting things off. Why do we
procrastinate? Why am I procrastinating? There are many reasons. Here are some that I have found:
- I don’t know where to start
- The task seems daunting and monumental
- I am afraid I don’t have the ability
- I fear I will not be able to finish
- I am afraid of looking stupid
- I tried before and failed
- I just don’t feel like doing it
You could probably put your own list up but I would guess
that it would have some similarities to my list. Is there a secret to overcoming
procrastination or a solution? I think the answer is yes. We are all intimidated by the world. The people that accomplish the most are the
ones who find support from others. Every year at graduation, I listen to the
seniors in my school talk about how they could not have made it without the help and support
of someone else, usually their family, a teacher or friends. Going to college
for four years is a major undertaking. We can never be sure if we will pass or
graduate or even manage to pay the college loans off. Anyone who starts school begins a very long
and precarious journey. However, as the
song says “I get by with a little help from my friends.”
When you find that you are procrastinating that can be a red
flag or a signal that you need some help from a friend. Working together we can do anything. Remember
Ben Franklin's famous quote “Either we all hang together or we all hang
separately.” Why try to do it all by
yourself? Musicians, chess players,
actors and sports figures all have coaches.
Coaches help us stay on track and provide moral and mental support. You
may not be able to afford a high paying professional coach, but I will bet
there is someone in your life that could help play this role. Seek this person out and enlist them in your
endeavor. The secret to overcoming
procrastination is to find others who can support and nurture your effort. Perhaps you can be that coach for someone else as well.
What are you putting forward today that you really need to
do now? Who can you enlist to support
you mentally, physically or emotionally in your effort? Do you need ideas or simply willpower? Who do you know that would best provide them? Who could you provide them for? By the end of the day, will you be able to
contact them? If not, is there someone
else who could help you? Don’t
procrastinate, contact them now. You will be glad you did.
interesting post. For some light relief here is a funny about procrastination
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